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Your business is in fact, not accessible, when there are stairs leading to your bathrooms, no matter how step free your front door is.
you can improve literally any word by adding “girl” in front of it btw. girlscared. girlnormal. girlweird. girlsilly. etc. girl can be such a beautiful focal point of anyone’s vocabulary
the trick is though you can ALSO improve literally any word by adding girl behind it. scaredgirl. normalgirl. weirdgirl. sillygirl. girl can be such a beautiful focal point of ANYONES vocabulary
hey um chuckles nervously. what the fuck are they doing over on tiktok
A little rattlesnake by Aurora, bought from their website in August 2023. Yes, it does rattle!
attention , very important reminder !
snails exist . flowers exist . there is beautiful men to kiss . world is wonderful :)
forgive your disabled friends for always being angry with the world. but don’t feel pity for us
Sometimes you’re gonna have access needs that are incompatible with another disabled person’s and that’s valid.
Neither of you are ableist for not being able to accommodate each other’s needs.
‘Autistics always love talking to other autistics, it’s always effortless for autistics to communicate with eachother’ stop!
telling!
lies!
Autistics are, basically, min-maxed relative to allistics. That means we do often get along with eachother EXTREMELY well and quickly, like, to an extent that wouldn’t make sense to allistics- but it ALSO means that when we don’t get along, that’s fucking it. We’re magnets. We either attract or repel, and fucking Nothing will change how we react to eachother after that
Two incompatible autistics are like two male betta fish in a teacup. Peace Was Never An Option
Any autist saying ‘that’s not true’ 100% guarantee hasn’t spent enough time with a variety of other autistics lmao
not understand second part so don’t know if agree but first part very very agree because
as nonverbal (ALL TIME) high support need autistic. many of me been badly treated by regular people. are themselves autistic, but speaking & lower support needs.
have been harrass, made fun, mocked, very ableist things, call fake, call slurs. have been ignore, leave out (because don’t realize people like me exist or on purpose exclude), silenced. infantized, demonized. call be privilege for be nonverbal & hsn. call me gatekeep because tell them not change our own words. be told should not exist, should be killed. all done by some speaking / LSN autistics who close minded refuse see autism different from them & refuse look at own advantage, who want believe they most oppressed so my mere exist threaten them.
and these. just tiny bit of what went through. both online and in person. with people don’t know, and with people me know. who told should call friend. who say they friend. who say they exactly like me because both autistic but convenient ignore how me nonverbal & hsn mean very very different experience. and who ignore me exist in first place, never respond to anything me say (through AAC), as if air.
honestly can say. all me semi/nonverbal/speaking mid/hsn autistic friends. experienced at least some of these.
not say allistics no do any this, or speaking lsn all bad, or nonverbal hsn people magical good people who no do bad thing.
“autistics always connect better with other autistics” is idea take from double empathy, which. entire thing of it, never ever included nonverbal & higher support need autistic people & people w ID during study or develop theory. it very sanitized sheltered view of “autism”.
all what bread say . not autism people at least not often pretend like really care just get right to kick and bully .
autism people done so so so much pretend like and then blame hate because , everyone else know these things can do these things can figure out . that means when gwydion make mistake is not really mistake , because is just bad person not try hard enough ! ( when . have more than just autism in brain . )
happen so much that destroy chance almost anyone actually become friend , because can not know that not secretly think these things and have plans hurt or try blackmail or anything .
autism not magic friend finder .
good morning to these people and these people only: autistic people who constantly put their foot in their mouth, bitches with NPD, undiagnosed freaks who bamboozle the DSM, bipolar or mood disorder girlies and non-girlies in a manic rage, low- or no-empathy weirdos, and psychos (reclaimed). please survive.